Confident, not just comfortable.

Intimate scenes are, by definition, intimate. They won't always be comfortable. It's my job to make actors and directors confident; clear on choreography, clear on the boundaries, and free to do their best work.

I approach intimacy coordination with a deep belief that vulnerability on set deserves the same rigor and artistry as any other element of storytelling.

On set, I act as the emotional ground: a calming presence with the ability to move fast and pivot when a scene demands it. I listen to a director's vision and an actor's boundaries with equal weight, and assist in designing choreography that works for everyone in the room.

As a former producer with a decade of experience in the industry, I know how to keep things calm while moving at pace.

I bring a deep knowledge and understanding of the mechanics, culture and language of intimacy, kink, BDSM, and polyamory to my work.

Curious what working with me looks like, beat by beat?

The Process
The Process

  • "Alex was fantastic. It was my first time working with onscreen nudity and Alex was a great guiding hand. His experience as a producer is invaluable... He just "gets it". My cast felt safe to explore with Alex on set, and we all developed a great shorthand really quickly. I'd highly recommend having him out on your set!"

    —Sonny Atkins, Director

  • "I worked with Alex on the set of a short film, which included scenes with intimacy and implied nudity. His top priority was to create a safe and comfortable working environment, acting as a liaison between the cast and production to clearly communicate boundaries and expectations. He also provided the appropriate modesty garments to ensure adequate coverage and protection. Beyond his expertise and professionalism, he was extraordinarily kind and thoughtful. I would work with Alex again in a heartbeat, and highly recommend him to any production looking for an intimacy coordinator."

    —Natalie Jane, Actor

  • "I had the most amazing, comfortable, communicative experience with Alex. From day one of jumping onto a call with him before getting to set, to being able to tastefully and comfortably curate multiple intimacy scenes that translated so beautifully on screen. Alex knows exactly how to make both actors and production happy while staying true to everyone’s comfort levels. I would recommend and be honored to work with Alex again and again!"

    - Liv Kirby, Actor

  • "Working with Alex as an intimacy coordinator was an amazing experience. I never felt unsafe or uncomfortable on set and he worked with me to create an environment that I felt the most comfortable. He was always helping us figure out the easiest way to follow a crazy script and I never felt unsafe or uncomfortable asking for a change or more clarification on a specific part. Alex is one of the best intimacy coordinators I’ve ever worked with and I hope I get to be on set with him again in the future!"

    —Kayley Morch, Actor